What’s up with all these people being so impolite these days? People who don’t have the need to be polite and just say whatever they want to say not thinking how someone else will react to their pointless (and often mean) outburst… It is more than normal to get stressed by things that don’t go the way you would like, but that doesn’t mean you have to be rude.
Point 1: It’s a vicious circle. Once you start being rude/mean to someone, that person will carry that negative thought with him/her. And at a certain point that person will give it someone else. It’s like a virus, a very annoying one.
Point 2: Why can’t people express their annoyance in another way. Just take a breath, count to ten and smile. Say what you want to say but not in a stupid hurtful kind of way.
I just can’t seem to understand why some people have the need to spread hate all over the place. Maybe it’s just me being really dramatic right now and maybe this is just me wanting to get something off my chest. But we really need to try harder to be polite and respect each other…
To change the world, start with yourself…
What is love? What does love feel like? Am I too young to know what love is?
I think about these questions all the time… The more I think about it, the more it confuses me, this strange emotion called ‘love’. Don’t get me wrong, I love the warm feeling of loving someone. The different levels of love, the different stages of love, the different meanings of love.
I suppose you can only love someone when you are sure losing that person would feel like losing a part of yourself.
You can love your parents. I guess it’s normal to love your parents. No matter how often I think about getting away from home, I couldn’t imagine how my life would be without them. I don’t even want to imagine that. We tend to forget how lucky we are having our parents around us. Imagine not having the unconditional love of a parent, imagine not having a home, imagine not having the people who will do anything for you no matter what you do.
You can love your friends. Some friends don’t really last long, other friends are for life. I’m so lucky to have great friends around me. Today I was with a friend of mine. Even though she’s going to a far away university and even though it won’t be as easy to see eachother on a regular basis… I will do everyting to keep in touch with her. She’s someone I don’t want to lose, someone who has become so important to me… I couldn’t imagine me without her. That’s the kind of love that makes me happy, makes me feel safe. (I really do feel extraordinary safe around her now I think about it.)
You can love your boyfriend. (If you have one) I guess loving your boyfriend would be great. I can’t really talk about this kind of love at the moment to be honest. I suppose you would feel safe around him, feel confident. It’s like being romantic with your best friend (or I hope so).
You HAVE to love yourself. Please never forget this. I don’t mean you have to look into a mirror and be completely obsessed with yourself, but have respect for yourself. Don’t let people take advantage of you and surround yourself with people who truly care about you. I know it’s not always easy with those two-faced people on this weird little planet (see previous post). But try. Life is too short to waste it on people who aren’t worth it!
Love is something so big and yet so personal. Love the people who deserve to be loved, yourself included.